Updated: Jul 11
Are the name changes giving you whiplash yet? So here's the story...
As most of you know, I started off as a private escort under the name Jenna King. Not only did I market myself and build a brand around the name, but I also truly became Jenna. She was a part of who I am, but also a whole entity in and of herself. Over the months, I grew very attached to the Jenna-persona; she was a part of my identity. And then something crappy happened... My cover was almost blown. Someone in my social circle introduced me to a friend of theirs who just so happened to be a previous client of mine. With Perth being so small, I suppose it was bound to happen eventually, and I guess I'm surprised it didn't happen sooner. But suddenly there was the possibility that I would be "outed" to my family and friends, and I can't even begin to explain to you how terrified I was. It felt like my world was about to come crashing down.
Reluctantly I took down my advertising and my website, and saw only my regulars for a few weeks while I waited to see if the nauseous feeling in the pit of my stomach would die down. When nothing eventuated, I timidly tested the waters and revamped my profile under the name Cassie Royale, using a different advertising platform and only very recent photos that the ex-client was unlikely to have seen before. My heart wasn't in it though. I just didn't feel like Cassie. That just wasn't me. Clients would say my name and I would feel very awkward and uncomfortable responding to them. It's funny how a name can be tied so strongly to your sense of self. Logically I know that a rose by any other name would smell as sweet, but my confidence was shaken and I felt like an imposter. I have a sneaking suspicion that it comes down to the circumstances under which I was forced to become Cassie. I felt like I had no choice, and that just didn't sit right with me.
But now that I can safely say the threat has been extinguished, I think it's time to make things right and to start fresh again. Enter Jasmine Lane... It's so nice to meet you all!
This time around, I'm changing my name because I want to, not because I have to. The name Jasmine has a special place in my heart. It's the very first name I used when I started in the industry in a brothel several years ago, and it's tied to lots of fond memories for me. I really missed being Jasmine. And now I can truly say that when I introduce myself, it feels so familiar. It feels like home.
I would love to say that my time in the private industry hasn't changed me, but I think it has in a way. While it is true that I have stood by my convictions, and have not caved in to the pressures to perform unsafe services such as BBBJ, I think I did gradually fall into the trap of conforming with the masses. Without even realising it, I found myself advertising my "big tits," "juicy ass," and "killer blow job skills." Those things may be true, but it's just not like me to use that to sell myself. I don't really want to make money that way. It feels cheap and sleazy and I can't hold my head high knowing that I have reduced myself to a collection of body parts and holes. My new Scarlet Blue profile may be a little explicit in its descriptiveness, but it's in a tasteful way I hope. I really wanted to capture that the service I offer is about the experience of two people, it’s not just a one-sided transaction. Your money doesn’t pay for you to use my body. It just compensates me for my time, so that I might give my full attention to you and to the wonderful experience we will share together. If I should be advertising anything, it should be that, right?
Right now, I just want to be Jasmine... A girl who is all about the sensual, passionate encounters in life; a girl who is genuine, warm and affectionate. Those are the qualities that make me a great escort. That's my niche and I don't know why I would ever think to deviate from that when it had always worked really well for me before. I know that some girls really do get a kick out of being that raunchy porn-star sex-doll fantasy, and more power to them. I think they're amazing and incredibly hot. But I have no business trying to beat them at that game. I need to be true to myself. I'm sexy in a different way, but more than that, I offer men that feeling of being wanted and appreciated, and sometimes that's just what they need. Sometimes tenderness, trust and intimacy are more powerful than physical lust. Yes, being an escort is about fulfilling sexual desires, but isn't it also about connecting one-on-one with a man, and making him feel as good as he makes me feel? I understand that most men who are seeking an escort, are enticed by that x-rated playmate experience. But I'm not looking to make "most men" my clients. I want to meet the clients who are like-minded and who enjoy the kind of eroticism that I myself crave. They are the ones who make me the happiest, and when one of them comes along, I do my best to keep them around. While I've learnt some things from Jenna and Cassie that I'll be holding onto, I really just want to reminisce now and to take it back to where it all started; a time when I did this job not out of necessity, but out of a pure love for how wonderful it makes me feel.
I might do things a little differently, and I might not meet everyone's expectations of what an escort should be offering. But despite what everyone else around you is doing, sometimes you just have to do things your own way. Sometimes you just have to pave your own Lane... Jasmine Lane.
To celebrate the rebirth of Jasmine, I will be offering discounted rates for the rest of 2019! For the next few weeks, 30-minute bookings will be $250 (rather than $300), and 1-hour encounters will be $400 (as opposed to the usual $450). My availability will also be much more accomodating, with at least 3-4 shifts per week right up until New Years. To my regulars, I hope this gives us a chance to catch up and to spend the holiday season together: my favourite time of year! And to the new gentlemen I am yet to meet, I hope we can rectify that soon, and fill our summer with lots of laughs, cuddles and orgasms! Don't forget that next year will be my last in the industry guys. In the year after that, as I focus on my new career, I will only be spending the occasional evening and weekend with a handful of my dearest and most special long-term regulars. I think it's fitting and sort of poetic, that I would come full circle and bring Jasmine back now, as I slowly prepare to wrap up my time in the industry. It's been a beautiful ride so far, and I can't wait for what's yet to come.
All my love,